Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Why Should Christians Fast?

Below are a few notes on fasting.


Jesus on Fasting

It is Assumed that Christians Fast
Fasting was assumed to be done in addition to praying and giving. Matt 6:2,5,16 say essentially, when you give, pray, fast; do it privately, “and your Father, who sees what is done in secret will reward you.” The Lord obviously wants us not to fast for show but also is promising a reward of some sort. When people fasted, they usually wanted to be heard by God.

Jesus says to fast and pray for healing (God’s action during calamity)  
In Matt 17:14-23 (and Mark 9:14-29), Jesus heals a boy with a demon. The disciples asked him why they couldn’t drive it out. He says it’s because of their little faith. In verse 21, Jesus also says, “But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.” According to the NIV Study Bible note, some manuscripts do not have verse 21. This is another example of the power of prayer combined with fasting.

Fast to seek God when bridegroom taken away (God’s action during calamity)
In Luke 5:33-35, Jesus is questioned about fasting and says, “when the bridegroom is taken away, then they'll fast.” This showed that fasting is more for mourning or God-seeking. The note in the NIV Study Bible says that Jesus’ disciples “enjoyed a freedom not known by the Pharisees. In the HCSB version, Jesus says “Can the wedding guests be sad while the groom is with them?” This also points toward fasting during mourning/calamity. While Jesus rejected fasting legalistically for display, he himself fasted privately and permitted its voluntary use for spiritual benefit.” The same passage is found in Mark 2:18-21. The note says that John the Baptist’s disciples may have been fasting as an expression of repentance to hasten the coming redemption announced by John. Also, the day of atonement fast was the only one required in Mosaic Law. However, in Jesus' time the Pharisees fasted twice a week.

Fast with the right heart/proper motives
In Luke 18:12, Jesus points out that being humble is more important than giving and fasting. In a parable about a Pharisee, Jesus said the Pharisee was boasting about not being greedy, unrighteous, or a tax collector and said that he fasts twice a week and gives a tenth of everything he gets. However, Jesus said that the tax collector (who said, “God, turn Your wrath from me – a sinner!”) was justified rather than the Pharisee. Jesus goes on to say, “everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”


Old Testament Fasting

David fasted for people when they were sick (seeking God’s action during calamity)
In Ps 35:13, David talks about some old friends who are coming after him/slandering him. He says “Yet when they were ill, I put on sackcloth and humbled myself with fasting. When my prayers went unanswered, I went about mourning as though for my friend or brother.” David obviously combined prayer with fasting and expected to be answered. In 2 Sam 12:16 and 22, David fasted for his sick baby. He wanted God's mercy. “David pleaded with God for the child. He fasted and went into his house and spent the nights lying on the ground.” In verse 22 he said, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept, I thought, ‘who knows? The Lord may be gracious to me and let the child live.’” He was certainly fasting for a reason and when his son had died, there wasn’t a reason to fast anymore.

Judah fasted for God to stop the plague (God’s action during calamity)
In Joel 1:14, Joel foresees an invasion of locusts. He calls for Judah to fast in order for God to stop the plague from coming. God replies in Joel 2:12, return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping. Joel says in 2:13-14a, Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity. Who knows? He may turn and have pity and leave behind a blessing.” This shows that they were seeking God’s action to stop the impending plague. It seems like an emphasized prayer during times of calamity; a way to cry out to God.

The Ninevites believed God and Sought His Mercy (God’s action before calamity)
In Jonah 3:5, the Ninevites believed God and declared a fast to call on God for mercy. The king decreed “Let everyone call urgently on God. Let them give up their evil ways and their violence. Who knows? God may relent and with compassion turn from his fierce anger so that we will not perish.” God had revealed to them that what they were doing was evil. He said to Jonah, “Should I not be concerned about that great city?”

Israelites fasted once a year for forgiveness of sins – Day of Atonement
In Lev 16:29, 30 it is written that the Israelites were to deny themselves (fast) and not do any work. The NIV note says that it was “a day of rest, fasting, and sacrifices of atonement for priests and people and atonement for the tabernacle and altar. It was done to cleanse priests and people from their sins and purify the Holy Place.” In Heb 9:7 it says that, “the high priest entered the inner room, and that only once a year, and never without blood.” In Heb 10:3 is says, “those sacrifices are an annual reminder of sins.” But in Heb 10:19 is says that “we have confidence to enter the Most Holy Place by the blood of Jesus.” Other verses that talk about the Day of Atonement (Yom Kippur) are Lev 23:26-32 and Num 29:7. In Rom 3:25, Paul writes that Jesus was a sacrifice of atonement and in 1 John 2:2, John writes that He is “the atoning sacrifice for our sins.”

Moses fasted for the sins of the people after they made the golden calf (God’s action of forgiveness)
In Deut 9:18-19, Moses fasted after the people made the golden calf. “Then once again I fell prostrate before the Lord for forty days and forty nights; I ate no bread and drank no water, because of all the sin you had committed, doing what was evil in the Lord’s sight and so arousing his anger. I feared the anger and wrath of the Lord, for he was angry enough with you to destroy you.” This is one example where fasting seems like an emphasized prayer. Again, it was done to seek action from God. In this case, that God would relent from destroying the Israelites.

Daniel fasted according to his convictions (Honoring God)
In Daniel 1:8-16, Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine since the first portion of it was a sacrifice to idols. He asked permission to just eat vegetables and water and actually looked healthier after ten days compared to the other men. God later used Daniel in a mighty way and gave him special revelations.

Fasting needs to be combined with action
In Isa 58:3-9 God asks “Is this the kind of fast I have chosen, only a day for a man to humble himself?” No. It is to show love to others. “Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—when you see the naked, to clothe them, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood? Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness[a] will go before you, and the glory of the Lord will be your rear guard. Then you will call, and the Lord will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I.” There are three main points in these verses. 1) Only humbling oneself is not the goal of fasting. 2) Loving/helping other people is desired. 3) God promises to respond quickly.

Fasted during war (God’s action during calamity)
In Judges 20, the Israelites went to battle against the Benjamites twice and got defeated both times. Both times the Lord allowed them to suffer losses (22,000 and 18,000 men). Then they fasted, prayed, and offered fellowship and burnt offerings to the Lord. The Lord then told them to go against them and said that He would deliver them into their hands.

God refused to listen although they were fasting
In Jer. 14, the Lord was angry with the people for their sins. In verse 12 he says “although they fast, I will not listen to their cry; though they offer burnt offerings and grain offerings, I will not accept them.” The sin of idolatry was so extreme that He said He will not listen to Jeremiah’s prayers for them. What is interesting is that God talks about both fasting and offerings in similar manner, somewhat equating the two.

Be sincere when fasting
In Zech 7, God asked, “Was it really for me that you fasted?” The NIV note says it was a rebuke for selfish and insincere fasting. In verse 9, God says, “Administer justice, show mercy and compassion to one another. Do not oppress the widow or the fatherless, the alien or the poor. In your hearts do not think evil of each other.” This suggests that obedience (or doing what is right) is more important than an act of fasting. Obedience is an expression of faith and so is fasting, when it is done with the right heart.

Esther asked all the Jews to fast before she met the King (God’s action before calamity)
In the book of Esther, the right hand man of King Xerxes, Haman, persuaded the king to annihilate the Jews. After Esther was made queen and at her request, the Jews fasted before she was to see the king and petition him to not kill the Jews. She said in Esther 4:16, “Gather all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my maids will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish.” She was specifically fasting to preempt a calamity. Also, the Jews fasted when they had first heard of the decree (4:3). Again, this sounds like a way to cry out to God before impending calamity. I believe she wanted to make sure she was not only “covered” by prayer, but also prayer with fasting. She had already made up her mind to go, so it doesn’t seem like she was praying and fasting for guidance, but God’s action in the situation.

King Ahab fasted after he heard the Lord’s rebuke through Elijah (God’s action before calamity)
In 1 Kings 21:20-29, Elijah brings a rubuke from the Lord to King Ahab for this reason: “because you have sold yourself to do evil in the eyes of the Lord.” Ahab was upset that Naboth would not sell him a vineyard that was close to his palace. His wife, Jezebel, told him “Cheer up. I’ll get you the vineyard” and did so by having him wrongfully stoned to death. Ahab did not instigate the death, but did go to take ownership after the vineyard after Naboth’s death. Therefore, the Lord said He would bring disaster on him. After hearing this, Ahab tore his clothes, wore sackcloth and fasted. “Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah the Tishbite: Have you noticed how Ahab has humbled himself before me? Because he has humbled himself, I will not bring disaster in this day, but I will bring it on his house in the days of his son.” So the Lord looked upon Ahab with mercy because of his fasting. It doesn’t say specifically that he prayed (since it appears fasting is to be combined with prayer), but obviously the Lord saw a repentant heart. Whether he prayed or not, we don’t know, but we do know his heart was heard.


Fasting after Jesus’ Resurrection

Apostles received direction from the Holy Spirit while worshiping and fasting (God provided direction)
In Acts 13:2, Luke writes, “While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, ‘Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.’ So after they had fasted and prayed, they placed their hands on them and sent them off.” It doesn’t say that they were seeking the Lord for this reason or why they were fasting. But usually people fasted for a specific reason. When their fasting and prayer period was done, they placed their hands on them and sent them off. Either way, Luke wrote that they were fasting and worshiping, which leads me to believe that they were fasting for some other reason, but the Lord spoke to them during this time for this reason.

Fasted for appointing elders to churches (God’s action for a major decision and/or direction)
In Acts 14:23, Luke writes (NIV) that while traveling from city to city, “Paul and Barnabas appointed elders for them in each church and, with prayer and fasting, committed them to The Lord, in whom they had put their trust.” The Darby Bible translation states, “And having chosen them elders in each assembly, having prayed with fastings, they committed them to the Lord, on whom they had believed.” The Weymouth NT says, “And in every Church, after prayer and fasting, they selected Elders by show of hands, and commended them to the Lord on whom their faith rested.” So, fasting may have been part of the appointing process, the committing process, or both.


From these passages, it appears as though there are a few themes regarding fasting. Fasting…
  • Should be done routinely like prayer and giving
  • Should be combined with prayer, which results in an emphasized prayer
  • Should be combined with acts of love
  • Is to be done secretly and sincerely, with proper motives/convictions (secretly only if an individual fast and not a church-wide fast)
  • Is done during calamity for seeking action from God
  • Is done when seeking God’s direction


Praying is an expression of faith. Fasting is an emphasized prayer. Fasting is an emphasized expression of faith.

Fasting from food is not for everyone. Some people have health conditions or other factors that limit them from participating in activities that limit food intake. A partial fast (sometimes called a Daniel fast) is another way to fast. Basically it’s only fruits and vegetables, no meat, bread, or sweets (but it could be limiting just one area). Really, there are a number of ways to fast. One of the most significant ways we could fast today is through a media or social media fast. We take in a variety of media every day, most of it discretionary. I believe the key is to be focusing on God. Basically, with a fast you’re saying “this matter is so important to me, God, that I’m dropping everything to pray about it. And I believe You will answer.”


Friday, May 31, 2013

Crazy Love by Francis Chan - Chapter 10: The crux of the matter

Chapter 10: The crux of the matter

"How we live our days is how we live our lives." - Annie Dillard.

Francis explains that he wrote this book because often our talk doesn't match our lives. I know I don't always walk the talk. We all fail. However, through the power of the Holy Spirit, we can live victorious lives. Lives that continually grow closer to God. Lives that continually point others to Christ. After all, what can be more important than that? If my life is snap of the fingers compared to eternity, shouldn't I be planning for that eternity? Shouldn't I be making the most of my days here knowing that at any time I could die and meet the Lord? If so, what can I do to make my talk match my walk?

If I had to boil this book down to a phrase it would be "God's love for us is so crazy, shouldn't our response be just as crazy?" What phrase comes to mind as you boil down this book?

Pursuing Christ takes deliberate pursuit and attentiveness. It takes energy, effort. It takes me getting up off the couch and grabbing a bible to read. It takes me getting involved in my church. It takes me finding opportunities to serve others. What one thing will you try to apply to your life and change to better serve God and others?

Switchfoot wrote a song called "Burn Out Bright." It makes me think of finishing the race strong, or in football, "leaving it all on the field." In five years, what would you like to see in your life?

I hope you enjoyed this challenging book like I did. God bless you and may God draw you closer to Himself and use you to bless others.

Summary Questions:
  • What can I do to make my talk match my walk?
  • What phrase comes to mind as you boil down this book?
  • What one thing will you try to apply to your life and change to better serve God and others?
  •  In five years, what would you like to see in your life?

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Crazy Love by Francis Chan - Chapter 9: Who really lives that way?

Chapter 9: Who really lives that way?

In this chapter, we read about a wide variety of examples of people who live/lived out their faith in significant ways, some more extreme than others. All of them were completely committed to the Lord. George Muller ran an orphanage and depended on the Lord for everything. Nathan Barlow used his medical skills to help others in Ethiopia. The Robynson family would make food for the homeless on Christmas morning. Who out of the fourteen people/groups that Francis writes about, stood out to you? Why? Which example would you find the hardest to be like?

The Lord has given each of us certain skills and abilities that are unique. Romans 12:6-8 says "We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully." What gifts or skills has God given you that you can use to bless others?

Many of us have had people in our lives who serve as a great example. Two men come to mind when I think about who has served as great examples in my life. One owned a business and the other worked in the ministry, yet both had a profound impact on me and others. Who in your life has lived the way that these people have lived (fully surrendered to God)?

Since reading this book, Have you felt called to live out your faith in a different way?

At the end of the chapter, Francis challenged me to think about others around me and how I might reach out to them. He writes, "I hope they (the examples) have challenged the multitudes who feel 'called to the rich' and ignore the poor." Is there a certain group of people to whom you feel called to minister?

Summary Questions:
  • Who out of the fourteen people/groups that Francis writes about, stood out to you? Why? 
  • Which example would you find the hardest to be like?
  • What gifts or skills has God given you that you can use to bless others?
  • Who in your life has lived the way that these people have lived (fully surrendered to God)?
  • Since reading this book, Have you felt called to live out your faith in a different way?
  • Is there a certain group of people to whom you feel called to minister?



    Tuesday, May 7, 2013

    Crazy Love by Francis Chan - Chapter 8: Profile of the obsessed

    Chapter 8: Profile of the obsessed

    This chapter is 180 degrees compared to the lukewarm chapter (chapter 4). Francis Chan challenges readers to re-evaluate their relationship with the Lord. He defines obsessed as "to have the mind excessively preoccupied with a single emotion or topic." Christians should strive for being obsessed with God. Have you ever been obsessed with something?

    The obsessed are people (paraphrased):

    Lovers: Who love a person after they have hurt them.
    Risk Takers: Who care more about the Kingdom of God than their own personal safety.
    Friends of All: Who are friends to people of all walks of life, including those really in need.
    Crazy Ones: Who are more concerned about obeying God than doing what is expected.
    The Humble: Who point others to Christ and not themselves.
    Servers: Who take joy in loving God by loving His people.
    Givers: Who think of others more than themselves and are particularly aware of the poor.
    Sojourners: Who think about enternity more than their life on earth.
    The Engrossed: Who have a passionate love for God above all else.
    Unguarded Ones: Who are raw with God and don't try to mask the ugliness of their sins.
    The Rooted: Who spend time with God faithfully.
    The Dedicated: Who are more concerned about their character than their comfort.
    Sacrificers: Who sacrifice thank offerings to God because they know they can never repay Him.

    If there is one type of people in this list that you are closest to being, which one is it?
    What two types of people would you like to become?

    There is a point that Francis makes that I thought was good: "there has to be more to our faith than friendliness, politeness, and even kindness." We ought to be loving all people, even our enemies, to those who can't repay us. These are not easy things, but they are possible through the love of Christ. When have you chosen to love someone in difficult circumstances (child, spouse, parent)?

    Later in the chapter Francis writes, "I didn't know many people who were truly in need."  I agree that we need to reach out to those in need and get to know them. How diversified is your friend portfolio?

    I think the point of this chapter is to switch from looking at things we are doing that might be negative (chapter four) and strive toward things that are positive. We've likely seen this modeled, either in real life or in the bible. The challenge is to let God shape us into people who are "obesessed" with Him. Through the many ways He loves us, we know He is truly obsessed with us. How has God shown His love to you?


    Summary Questions:
    • Have you ever been obsessed with something? 
    • If there is one type of people in this list that you are closest to being, which one is it?
    • What two types of people would you like to become?
    • When have you chosen to love someone in difficult circumstances (child, spouse, parent)?
    • How diversified is your friend portfolio?
    • How has God shown His love to you?

    Monday, May 6, 2013

    Crazy Love by Francis Chan - Chapter 7: Your best life...later

    Chapter 7: Your best life...later

    In this chapter, Francis focuses on love and faith.

    First, Francis says we can either let life happen or actively run toward Christ. I'd put it this way: following Christ takes effort. Love takes effort. Love is a verb; action. Francis asks "what does running toward Christ and pursuing Love look like?" He looks at Hebrews 11 for the answer.

    Hebrews 11, often called the hall of faith, includes snippets from the lives of Abraham, Moses, Noah, and others in the bible who had great faith. They required God to come through in their situations. Francis says that having faith often means doing what others see is crazy. "Something is wrong when our lives make sense to unbelievers." What are some things that Christians do that non-Christians would think are crazy? Like Francis says "we want to put ourselves in situations where we are safe 'even if there is no God.'" How would others view your spirituality, crazy or sane? I know I play it safe at times when I should really be trusting in God. He has my life in the palm of His hand, yet I think I need to be in control. Jesus says in Matthew 6:26-27, "Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?" Does our worry or desire to play it safe point to a lack of faith/spiritual growth?

    In Matthew 25:45, Jesus' parable says that the king (who is actually himself, the Son of Man) will reply "Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me." Francis asks "What if I thought of everyone one I see as if they were Christ?" There is a connection between loving and giving. When we give we are showing love for the other person. Describe an example of when someone gave to you.

    One line that stood out to me from this chapter was this one, "As we begin the practice of regular giving, we see how ludicrous it is to hold on to the abundance God has given us and merely repeat the words thank you." It paints a picture of someone who has been given many gifts, but then just keeps them and doesn't share with those in need. Something is wrong with this picture.

    Francis says a professor asked him, "What are you doing right now that requires faith?" He replies in his mind that he probably wouldn't be living very differently if he didn't believe in God. Some of us might argue there are a few things that we do that requires faith. But do they? Really? Do I just have faith to say that what I'm doing isn't a waste of time or is it more than that?

    He also says that "Life is comfortable when you separate yourself from people that are different from you." He talks about the need to spend ourselves on others. Look for opportunities to help people, develop relationships with people that are different than us. Do you have a variety of friends or are they just like you?


    Summary Questions:
    • What are some things that Christians do that non-Christians would think are crazy?
    • How would others view your spirituality, crazy or sane?
    • Describe an example of when someone gave to you.
    • What are you doing right now that requires faith?
    • Do you have a variety of friends or are they just like you?

    Tuesday, April 23, 2013

    Crazy Love by Francis Chan - Chapter 6: When you're in love

    Chapter 6: When you're in love

    In this chapter, Francis takes a bit of a turn and starts to talk more about love. He says that guilt and fear are not the antidote to lukewarm, selfish, comfortable living. Instead, the answer is love. He also says when we are loving, we can't sin. Do you believe this is true? If so, why?

    A key concept that he hits on is that when we are pursuing love, running after Christ, we won't wonder "Am I doing this right? or Did I serve enough this week?"  As long as we are pursuing Him, we are satisfied in Him. When we are serving out of obligation and not love, we can get tired really fast. Was there a time when you've been tired of serving or have had these thoughts?

    Francis writes, "I think we naturally assume that if we look out for our own interests and concerns, we will be happy." A self-centered life seems to be the answer to happiness at times. But it truly is a lie from the enemy. Francis continues, "People generally do find greater joy in giving freely to others than they do in rampant self-indulgence." When have you found joy in giving to someone or meeting someone else's needs?

    Something my wife always says is "You can't out-give God." Francis points this out also. In Malachi 3, God challenges the Israelites to bring in the whole tithe and He promises to bless them if they do: "Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it." It is a direct challenge from God. Can you think of a time when you gave and shortly-thereafter God blessed you?

    When motivated by fear and guilt, serving others or God feels like work. "But when we truly love Christ, our work is a manifestation of that love, and it feels like love," Francis writes. Don't try to earn God's love through serving. Choose to love Him and the rest will come naturally. Read God's word and you'll find many reasons to love Him. His love for us "surpasses knowledge", Eph 3:19. When have you experienced growth your love for God?

    Summary Questions:
    • When we are loving, we can't sin. Do you believe this is true? If so, why?
    • Was there a time when you've been tired of serving or have had these thoughts?
    • When have you found joy in giving to someone or meeting someone else's needs?
    • Can you think of a time when you gave and shortly-thereafter God blessed you?
    • When have you experienced growth your love for God?

    Monday, April 22, 2013

    Crazy Love by Francis Chan - Chapter 5: Serving leftovers to a holy God

    Chapter 5: Serving leftovers to a holy God

    A lukewarm Christian is an oxymoron. There is no such thing according to Francis Chan. This is a heavy-hitting concept, because we each have lukewarm elements or practices in our lives, as even noted by Francis. In Revelation, Jesus says that the church in Laodicea is lukewarm and that he will spit them out of His mouth, implying that they are not saved. It says in Romans (10:9) that salvation is a matter of the heart, "That if you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." And, of course, God knows each of our hearts. Our salvation is not based on works. Ephesians 2:9-10 says "For it is by grace you have been saved through faith - and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God - not by works, so that no one can boast." However, faith is seen in our actions, according to James 2:17, "In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead." Non-fruit bearing Christians do not exist. In Matthew 7:18, Jesus says that "Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire." To summarize, fruit comes naturally from the hearts of Christians. What are some examples of fruit-bearing?

    Part of this chapter focused on giving to God. He points out that many of us are rich by the world's standards (53% of the world's people live on less than $2/day). He says we are rich people who complain we are poor at times. We might be more blind than poor, spiritually speaking. In Malachi 1:8, the Lord describes his anger toward the Israelites for their poor sacrifices. They offered the least of the animals for sacrifices. Francis says God described it as evil. The point here is that we ought to not get caught up in trying to acquire wealth at the expense of giving to those in need and giving to God. What are some examples of giving and why is it important?

    Francis quotes Tim Kizziar: "Our greatest fear as individuals and as a church should not be of failure but of succeeding at things in life that don't really matter." That is a quote that resonates with me. What are some examples of things that we might succeed at that won't matter in eternity?

    Francis writes, "Do you know that nothing you do in this life will ever matter, unless it is about loving God and loving the people He has made?" He writes that God measures our lives by how we love. Paul says in Corinthians, "If I have faith but have not love, I have nothing." If love is a verb, shown through actions, then how do we love?

    I believe that Francis' most important statement in this chapter is, "How we invest our time, money, energy is equivalent to choosing or rejecting God." What are some things that we should spend more of our time, money, and energy on?

    Summary Questions:
    • What are some examples of fruit-bearing?
    • What are some examples of things that we might succeed at that won't matter in eternity?
    • If love is a verb, shown through actions, then how do we love?
    • What are some things that we should spend more of our time, money, and energy on?

    Chapter 6: When you're in love